Friends first...see where it can go?

Where are the guys all my friends meet? I want a guy to wine and dine me. Lets go on a few dates, maybe kiss once or twice and like me for me. Help me like them for them. All Ive met are the guys that want to fool around during the first date...im not that kind of girl...i want to have fun, see where it can go...not looking to be married...but am looking for more then being a hook up girl. Are there any guys that want to be Friends first...see where it can go??