What can I say? another ad:

I am bored with my life... what can I say? I am 30... and am in the midst of couples everywhere I look... causing me to be the third wheel.

I have been spending a lot of time at the gym... at work... and just would like to have some fun too! I am in the midst of loosing weight... am a size 14... so if you want a tall thin thing... hmmm well sorry folks... cause that is just not me and will never be since I am only 5'3"!

I spend a lot of my free time going out with couples and seeing the rings and hearing about the babies... and I think... hmmm I don't even care about marriage at this point... just someone I can invite to my holiday party... someone who gives me a wink from across the room... maybe just maybe I could find someone to smile at me and make plans for the up and coming new year!

What can I say?

I want to do things I’ve never done before... which is a lot... after concentrating on my career for the last 10 years, I thought it was time to concentrate on other parts of my life that I have let fall through the cracks. I woke up the other day and realized all my friends are couples and I just turned 30! Yokes want to do things I haven't done!

I would love for someone who can make me laugh everyday no matter what. I want someone to do things with and to have fun with. I want a person who will do the things I want to do and try.

I joined Match a few weeks ago. I haven’t really had much luck as of yet… but did get a nice email from a guy tonight… responding to one of my dozens of winks I have put out there. I have been busy… I made the mistake of drunk texting "You Alive?" to Mr. Friday last weekend. He called seconds later… and with my state I missed it.

"Hey Katie, I just got your text, but am traveling so I decided to call instead. I am alive… just busy with the economy nightmare (he is in finance). I will call you later on this weekend and maybe we can plan something to hang out”

Ok… so on Tuesday he calls again. I never called back… I kind of forgot about him to be honest as I was healing from Friday’s wounds… so yea, on Tuesday he calls and says

“Hi, I was going to call this weekend, but got super busy and I slept all day Sunday due to my the last few weeks of stress”

Blah blah blah. I didn’t call back… what would I say? I think he might gross me out… except when I am drunk… which is weird! Then I get a text Sunday morning at 7:30 AM!

“Wake and Bake”

Ok, I didn’t respond once again… I am not sure what to say, and I think it’s for the best if I don’t say anything at all!

ON CL again!

I can not believe I am writing an ad on here... but what the heck why not try? I'll be honest and say I've had an ad or two and have been on a few dates through CL... but most are nuts... but every once in awhile you find someone real and normal.... maybe thats you?

Well, I am 30... just turned it!! Yikes! I want to start hiking and would love to find someone patient enough to show me the ropes or better yet, learn with me. I love laughing and having a good time... I love going out or staying in... I am not super thin and not super huge... so besides that... write me and I'll write more after :)

Hope to hear from you :)

I decided on friday night in a moment of weakness... after dinner with friends... couples all around me... majority met online... so why not post an ad on CL again.

Another ad...why not?

I want to start hiking, camping, and biking, more activities like this...I have been busy with the career and now I just want to have a life too...I woke up the other day and realized all my friends are couples and I am turning 30 in 6 weeks! Yikes! I want to do things I haven't done! I want a person who will do the things I want to do or try...and I would love for someone who can make me laugh everyday no matter what.


I am not super thin, not huge either, but I am honest...am around a size 14...but have been losing weight...hence my new interest in trying new things...


Well...maybe I will hear from someone normal who wants to meet rather then email and IM for weeks...and please be near my age and single...hope to hear from you...

Another Post? I know! I know!

Ok so I have met some great people off of CL...so I KNOW not ALL the guys here are complete nut cases...so please let me know if someone is finally REAL... I want a guy to wine and dine me. Lets go on a few dates, maybe kiss once or twice and like me for me. Help me like them for them. All I’ve met are the guys that want to fool around during the first date...you see I have a 4-5 date rule. I’m not that kind of girl...I want to have fun, see where it can go...not looking to be married...but am looking for more then being a hook up girl.

I am not thin, I’m not huge either…but I am overweight…a size 14-16. So if overweight women are a turn off…don’t waste my or your time.

Are there any guys that want to DATE me...see where it can go??

Hmm wonder what nutcases will reply....hahah its fun to write what people write on here!

What's a girl gotta do to get a guy in this town!

What's a girl gotta do to get a guy in this town!
Don't want to be alone when the sun goes down.
Just a little something to put my arms around.
What's a girl gotta do to get a guy in this town!

Had an old woman tell me "Girl if you were smart, you'd hit the produce aisle at the super wal-mart"
So I bumped into a cute SINGLE guy's shopping cart
All I did was break his eggs and bruise his artichoke hearts.

What's a girl gotta do to get a guy in this town!
Don't want to be alone when the sun goes down.
Just a little something to put my arms around.
What's a girl gotta do to get a guy in this town!

(thanks songlyrics.com)

Take it or leave it!

I posted an ad AGAIN on CL...its better then replying to some...and if I am more careful...what is the harm in doing it? Also I will have more things to write about in here...since its been awhile.

Ok...I read these ads when I am bored...and all the guys say they want someone attractive...BUT...here is the thing what is attractive to u might not be to your neighbor...and vice versa...so come on now...right?

And as for BBW or fit...now what do you consider BBW? honestly...I would like to know...cause I KNOW I am not thin...but Im not huge either more like a size 14-16...I am working my ass off literally to loose...1-2 pounds a week...by both eating healthy and going to the gym. SO...see I am fit...and healthy...

And then you get the so call attractive types...I mean NOT all women are like the Nicole Richie types...but so many women I know who are super thin...are so not healthy...but they are what guys call attractive?

Am I that bad if it something that I am working on and loosing? Wouldnt you rather have someone who is fun and loves to laugh? Someone who is healthy and can drink a pint in a pub rather then pass out at the first sip? Maybe you agree...maybe not...maybe I will hear from you?

sick of being the third wheel? me 2!

And another ad while I was ad it...I need something to do...and something to ad to this blog...

I have tried the whole online dating thing...and its frustrating cause the majority of guys I have met especially off of CL want just sex...or are married...why is that? To most CL=SEX. I'm not the type of girl to sleep with you on a first date...isn't that what Casual Encounters section is for?

I am also no Paris Hilton...who at the end of the day still cries for mommy. I am me... a size 16... curves and all... but I'm not going to lie and say I'm thin ...its something I have been working on...exercise...being healthy for me not you.

BUT, I love my friends...and movies...and music...my job is amazing...and I just would like someone to share it with...I'm sick of being the third wheel.

So if you have read this far...and are still single...are around my age...send me an email...lets go from there.

BBW?

Here is an ad I put on...cause it annoys me to read these ads...and get no responses to people off of Match and any other online dating thing...so here goes:

Ok...I read these ads when I am bored...and all the guys say they want someone attractive...BUT...here is the thing what is attractive to u might not be to your neighbor...and vice versa...so come on now...right?

And as for BBW or fit...now what do you consider BBW? honestly...I would like to know...cause I KNOW I am not thin...but Im not huge either...I am working my ass off literally to loose...1-2 pounds a week...by both eating healthy and going to the gym. SO...see I am fit...and healthy...

And then you get the so call attractive types...I mean NOT all women are like the Nicole Richie types...but so many women I know who are super thin...are so not healthy...but they are what guys call attractive?

Mr Martini and I...yea not so much

Today is the day for love… it is the traditional day on which lovers express their love for each other; sending Valentine's cards or candy. It is very common to present flowers on Valentine's Day.



I hate this day…I hate how for some it can make you feel so alive. And like the day is meant for…to feel in love or to be loved…but for the single it sucks.

Every year I tell myself who cares? All it is a money maker…that’s all…but without fail year after year I let it make me sad for being alone on V-day.

But, I do fall victim…and got to work this morning down and sad. I decided to do another ad on CL…similar to the one last week:

“Where are the guys all my friends meet? I want a guy to wine and dine me. I want a Valentine... Lets go on a few dates, maybe kiss once or twice and like me for me. Help me like them for them. All I’ve met are the guys that want to fool around during the first date...you see I have a 5-6 date rule. I’m not that kind of girl...I want to have fun, see where it can go...eventually LTR...not looking to be married just yet...but am looking for more then being a hook up girl.

I am not thin, I’m not huge either…but I am overweight…a size 16. So if overweight women are a turn off…don’t waste my or your time.

Are there any guys that want to DATE me...see where it can go??”

A lot of times I write these ads…more because one out of the 50 that email me I end up meeting…for example Mr. Martini.

Now let me update you on him shall we. We talked for a few on Saturday…not to much just a few quick emails. On Sunday nothing…Monday we emailed a few times…him claiming to be to busy at work to talk much…which is totally fine and understandable. I did ask him if we made it to a second date and he said, “what would you like to do?” I made some suggestions and then we never made any set date…which seemed odd to me since he was instant last week that we make a date for Friday night. A little different tune this week…but I wasn’t sure if I was being paranoid or not.

Yesterday, I was down about the whole Anchorman night and decided to call Mr. Martini to see if he wanted to do something. He called back leaving less the a 45 second message saying he went to the dentist so no he couldn’t hang out. Ok that was an ok excuse…but like I said maybe it was in my head that he seemed a little distant.

Today I sent an email asking if he was at work…and then did the CL ad.

I get a response from him through email…with the CL ad copied into the body. OK? So…what does that mean really? I emailed him asking…are you pissed?

First of all…I didn’t know how into me he was since…he hasn’t been all that attentive towards me since the Friday night…and we did spend a lot of time together on that First date. So, if he was so taken with me? Why not call? Why go on CL today at all if he was so smitten?

Cause, in the long run…he did go online and browse the ads…to find mine…that had a different title then the ad he replied to. So…he was looking as much as I am when posting. One date does not equal exclusive rights…maybe it would if he was a little more attentive and me not questioning his intentions on Friday night in the first place.

I get an email from him saying: “I think you try to meet people off the web to much that’s not what I am looking for, so take care”

SO I write back and called saying: “wow, I’m sorry...I really don’t meet many people...out of the last ad...you were the only one...and then today I was down because its V-day and I’m alone---so I posted another to see if I could talk to someone while at work...to really meet that person...probably not.

and you were looking too...

I like you... and would like to see you again.

I am a little clueless on the dating game...or else I would know how to be I guess.


I guess I hope you change your mind...or at least talk to me about it.”

But I haven’t heard from him. You know, its probably better this way…he was a little pushy and demanding in a lot of ways---especially on a first date.

I think I was taken with him because he wasn’t Anchorman…and he was cute in his way. I was attracted…I admit it…and there was a connection. A connection that is definitely missing from most first dates I’ve had. But I think I liked more that he met my friends and we all had fun. But he drank so much…and even though in some ways it was like 2 dates in one…he was really really pushy towards the end. I mean yes, he was drunk…but he knew he was on a date…and knew he had to drive. SLOW DOWN.

I just feel like in the end…maybe I did mess up…and maybe I do meet to many people online. I don’t know? He made me feel ashamed actually…like it was my fault…when I really wonder If he had any intentions of seeing me again after we got into his car to drive to mine. I didn’t give out…and at the same time he did get some action if not a lot… which is a little abnormal for me, but he was so PUSHY. On the drive to my car…he was a little cold…and for the first time in my life I felt that feeling of regret the morning after. Like I said…nothing MAJOR happened…but…

Anyway…I did have the last word (in my own head) saying: “good luck to you then...I guess you got what you wanted after all...”

I don’t know…I just have this feeling…and in my ad I do kind of send a challenge out there…that I have a 5 date rule…maybe he just wanted to break it. Or maybe? He’s right…and I did something wrong in sending out another AD…not sure what is right and what is wrong in this picture at this time.

I do know that this Valentines Day for one sexless in the city…was a doozy. Lets hope that one of these days I will make it one day like every other.

Friends first...see where it can go?

Where are the guys all my friends meet? I want a guy to wine and dine me. Lets go on a few dates, maybe kiss once or twice and like me for me. Help me like them for them. All Ive met are the guys that want to fool around during the first date...im not that kind of girl...i want to have fun, see where it can go...not looking to be married...but am looking for more then being a hook up girl. Are there any guys that want to be Friends first...see where it can go??