Mac and Cheese anyone?

On Saturday night...I had my third date in a row. I was kind of tired at that point and yea I will admit a little nervous after the literal crazy blind date from the night before!

We met at a cool pub...that was to be honest the best part. He was very nice...but you could tell very nervous. We sat down pretty fast even though it was fairly busy. We had a nice time...he was in advertising...and we both loved the TV show Hero's and movies. We didn't have much in common though...I don't think anyway...since we kept going into those awkward silences...where I start talking about random things. I am not sure if we will hang out again or not...I replied to the service and to him as we said our goodbyes, saying I would love to see a movie or something sometime. BUT, I haven't heard from him.

I did hear back from the guy from Thursday night. He emailed me actually while I was writing the blog about him. I did email him back the following morning...but haven't heard from him since. We will see as I always seem to say...

Save me!

So Friday's started off rocky...I was late-he was lost. The place didn't exist...the place where we were suppose to meet...so finally we were sitting at a bar that wasn't exactly what what we/I had in mind.

He was Indian, he is only here on business...nice at first...until he told me how he loves the strip clubs here in America. OK...you see in India they do not have strip clubs. He then tells me he has this friend he met off of OK Cupid...who "trust me" he says, she is just a "friend." Hmm..friend my ass...since for one he mentioned her a few to many times...then says well she is only 20...and has a 3 year old...and loves to have sex!!! hmmm....

I tried to bring the conversations to normal territory, but he kept interrupting by asking where I lived one minute, and then five minutes later he would ask how far away was Newton? How far away was newton from where he lived...of course my over anxious mind was wondering why was he asking me these things...along with the strip club and sex talk...yea I was kind of starting to get a bad feeling...well lets just say my bad feeling was growing...right until I put my hand into my pocket, went to the bathroom and called my friend to save me...

I was afraid to even walk to my car...because what if he thought he could follow...so I made my friend meet me for a drink...so I had an excuse not to go right towards my car...man what a weirdo...

I have never been so rude on a date...I was texting my friend right in front of him...I just wanted out of that date and now! Well then...you know what I mean. He pretty much ends the date by asking,

"So is it true? That American women love to have sex? Cause every woman I have met here LOVE to have sex!"

So...at least I have another adventures of KT and the dates...thank god it has been awhile since Ive had one of those...

Miracle of Science!

I met the Crazy Blind Date guy at the Miracle of Science tonight...I got there much to early and texted him saying what I was wearing...a black coat with a white scarf...he texted back saying he was sitting by the window...think red hair! I went in and by god I found just that a red haired guy sitting at the bar by the window...drawing on a graph pad. Hmmm...my heart did a little patter wondering what this guy did...who would have thought I would have something in common with him...more then the average financial guru that it. So we exchange our hello's and decide to move to a table. He seemed kind of distracted to be honest...I am not sure if it was me...or if it was he was nervous? But it was what it was.

So I started asking questions...what were you drawing? What do you do? He isn't a designer but does work with designers...he actually worked where I do now like 9 years ago. It made me laugh to hear some of the stories that has never changed...and the same people that I know now he knew then. It was interesting...and we know some of the same people.

We talked and drank and ate for over two hours. He did loose his wavering eyes once we got into conversations...so I am not sure if the cider loosened him up or maybe me? Who knows...he was nice...I would hang out with him again...I am not sure what was what...maybe a friend? Maybe something more? I am just not sure at the moment. The thing is we never did exchange phone numbers or contact info...I did tell Crazy Blind Date to share my info and said that I would like to get a drink sometime...just let me know. I guess we will see if he bites...if not...onto to tomorrow's date.

It is kind of nice to not have anything invested in this...just hoping he might contact me again...and if not there is nothing lost I guess. Its nice to not have to talk on IM and email until he responds...its kind of up to him to make the next move which is nice.

And yes, I do have another date tomorrow night...should be interesting...he is 26...


Now the question is...after tonight and tomorrow night...I do have a chance for Saturday night as well...do I take it or take a night off and maybe see a movie with a friend? Maybe I can do both...hmmm...

Happy New Year!!

Few I am happy the holidays are over...it has been a crazy season...

I had some great times and not so this season...I just worked way to much and Christmas for me was literally just a weekend, although I did go up to Maine for the New Year with some friends...we had a great time and was just what I needed to break into the new year.

I feel like I have gained tons of weight this season...yuck...so today I hit the gym...along with millions of others I am sure with a new outlook on life...since it is only the second day of the new year...what will the next year bring?

I have joined a new dating thing, "Crazy Blind Date! We like to keep things simple. That's why on very short notice we can set you up on quick dates with total strangers at public places like bars and coffee shops. You're not allowed to see their picture or even communicate."

Its kind of fun...its more face to face. Instead of emailing and Iming to get to know the basics...we will actually do it one on one...face to face. I know it brings along its own issues I am sure, but the immediate impression you get from someone online can be complicated...you think you might know someone...but what is real? and what is made up?

On Crazy Blind Date, I get to see a blurred image of this person, there age and heights, visual cues, and that is about it. Then 30 minutes before the date you can text with the person directly...using a number provided through the service. The only way we get personal info is by exchanging that info.

I did go on a date with one guy a few Fridays ago...kind of salesmany...but he was decent...not really into me...and I wasn't into him either. But, whatcha gonna do...it was faster then spending 3 weeks talking online and then meeting and not liking each other...after investing 3 weeks for nothing?

I have a date tomorrow night and Friday night...should be interesting...I am kind of excited to just meet new people again...

Well, I'll keep you updated...

Another Post? I know! I know!

Ok so I have met some great people off of CL...so I KNOW not ALL the guys here are complete nut cases...so please let me know if someone is finally REAL... I want a guy to wine and dine me. Lets go on a few dates, maybe kiss once or twice and like me for me. Help me like them for them. All I’ve met are the guys that want to fool around during the first date...you see I have a 4-5 date rule. I’m not that kind of girl...I want to have fun, see where it can go...not looking to be married...but am looking for more then being a hook up girl.

I am not thin, I’m not huge either…but I am overweight…a size 14-16. So if overweight women are a turn off…don’t waste my or your time.

Are there any guys that want to DATE me...see where it can go??

Hmm wonder what nutcases will reply....hahah its fun to write what people write on here!

It begins again

So I have been talking to this one guy off and on...We will call him The Salesman...he seems nice...he broke up with his ex only 6 weeks ago...which makes me a like skeptical....but I mean how do I know...it could have been over way before...

The Salesman is a realtor...and reminded me some of Mr Martini...I really cant explain it. He got on the phone and was asking me like a million questions....which was nice don't get me wrong...to finally have someone who is interested...but at the same time it was like he was selling me something. We made plans for Friday but he kept insisting that I drive to him...so when Friday rolled around I decided to bail. I pulled a player card I am afraid...I texted him saying I had a birthday party I forgot about. I am not sure why I did this...was I spooked? tired? just not into it? All of the above?

So after canceling I sent a text to some other guy who I also had been chatting with about meeting up. The thing with him was that he lived in my town, so I thought why not meet up for a drink. SO he accepted, but then it just got weird. I cant explain this...he kept saying he had a meeting and that he would text or call after. I said that was fine...but then he tried to call from the number I had the text from...and never left a message. I then texted saying I saw he had called and was all OK? We then continued to text off and on...him saying he wanted to see another pic of me. I agreed and asked for one from him in return. He then said he couldn't open it. Hmmmm.....I believed him....but then I get a call from him later on that night...and he was just odd...not telling me really what kind of meeting he was in...but the phone he called from came in as private...and then at one point he got another call from a phone somewhere else in the room...I could hear him say can I call you right back....hmmm it was just odd.

He then tells me he never got the email I sent earlier and to resend...which I did and then he couldn't open them again...during all of this confusion he keeps asking what I wanted to do tonight...I said "uhhh get a drink" as I said numerous times by now. He was like and that's all? So you have roommates? HMM....he then say..."2 huh?" I live alone but am house sitting right now. I was like...uhhh ok. He then says...well let me call you when I am done...it just might be kind of late...when originally he said he had a few errands...to a meeting and he could meet me at 8:30...to not sure as to when he would get out.

I said ok and got off the phone...he was to weird for me...all of it just seemed suspicious and odd...so I decided to text and cancel. I didn't hear from him...but did get a call at 6 in the morning...labeled private....weird.

I did get a few calls from The salesman on Friday even though I had canceled. He had seemed genuinely upset and I did feel bad...I just was so cold and so tired...I didn't want to drive to him...I would have met if he had even suggested meeting halfway. I am still in communication with him...and might meet him after all...just haven't decided yet...

And so i guess this means I am dating again...god I hate it...

What's a girl gotta do to get a guy in this town!

What's a girl gotta do to get a guy in this town!
Don't want to be alone when the sun goes down.
Just a little something to put my arms around.
What's a girl gotta do to get a guy in this town!

Had an old woman tell me "Girl if you were smart, you'd hit the produce aisle at the super wal-mart"
So I bumped into a cute SINGLE guy's shopping cart
All I did was break his eggs and bruise his artichoke hearts.

What's a girl gotta do to get a guy in this town!
Don't want to be alone when the sun goes down.
Just a little something to put my arms around.
What's a girl gotta do to get a guy in this town!

(thanks songlyrics.com)