So I have been talking to this one guy off and on...We will call him The Salesman...he seems nice...he broke up with his ex only 6 weeks ago...which makes me a like skeptical....but I mean how do I know...it could have been over way before...
The Salesman is a realtor...and reminded me some of Mr Martini...I really cant explain it. He got on the phone and was asking me like a million questions....which was nice don't get me wrong...to finally have someone who is interested...but at the same time it was like he was selling me something. We made plans for Friday but he kept insisting that I drive to him...so when Friday rolled around I decided to bail. I pulled a player card I am afraid...I texted him saying I had a birthday party I forgot about. I am not sure why I did this...was I spooked? tired? just not into it? All of the above?
So after canceling I sent a text to some other guy who I also had been chatting with about meeting up. The thing with him was that he lived in my town, so I thought why not meet up for a drink. SO he accepted, but then it just got weird. I cant explain this...he kept saying he had a meeting and that he would text or call after. I said that was fine...but then he tried to call from the number I had the text from...and never left a message. I then texted saying I saw he had called and was all OK? We then continued to text off and on...him saying he wanted to see another pic of me. I agreed and asked for one from him in return. He then said he couldn't open it. Hmmmm.....I believed him....but then I get a call from him later on that night...and he was just odd...not telling me really what kind of meeting he was in...but the phone he called from came in as private...and then at one point he got another call from a phone somewhere else in the room...I could hear him say can I call you right back....hmmm it was just odd.
He then tells me he never got the email I sent earlier and to resend...which I did and then he couldn't open them again...during all of this confusion he keeps asking what I wanted to do tonight...I said "uhhh get a drink" as I said numerous times by now. He was like and that's all? So you have roommates? HMM....he then say..."2 huh?" I live alone but am house sitting right now. I was like...uhhh ok. He then says...well let me call you when I am done...it just might be kind of late...when originally he said he had a few errands...to a meeting and he could meet me at 8:30...to not sure as to when he would get out.
I said ok and got off the phone...he was to weird for me...all of it just seemed suspicious and odd...so I decided to text and cancel. I didn't hear from him...but did get a call at 6 in the morning...labeled private....weird.
I did get a few calls from The salesman on Friday even though I had canceled. He had seemed genuinely upset and I did feel bad...I just was so cold and so tired...I didn't want to drive to him...I would have met if he had even suggested meeting halfway. I am still in communication with him...and might meet him after all...just haven't decided yet...
And so i guess this means I am dating again...god I hate it...
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