So...I got back from Jamaica last sunday and have been feeling thinner! I had pictures taken of me and felt that a lot of them made me look thinner then I had in the past. I got hit on the minute I stepped off the bus...sure it was a Jamaican guy, but hey why not...he was a cutie in his native way.
So...I was feeling more confident in the way I look...so I decided to try dating again... also it doesnt help that I am bored... and just would like to find someone to make me laugh.
So I decided Crazy Blind Date was the way to go...then I get a text saying that this guy I was suppose to meet doesnt except text messages...which totally threw me. How was I suppose to know who the guy is...all I have on him is a name...and I wasnt about to walk up to any one standing alone and say, "Are you Ken?"
Anyway, I sat at the bar and had a beer...talked to my married very cute neighbor. I did see one guy walking around...he even looked at me and didnt say anything to me. Was he Ken? But...since neither of us had the balls to say "Are you...?" I decided though...if this guy was make my heart tremor hot...then maybe I could have something...but I just wasnt all into him...and maybe if he was Ken, he wasnt into me anymore then I was into him...other wise maybe he would have said "Are you Katie?"
So I got home, talked to a friend about hitting a movie, and went online...and decided in my hours before walking out the door, that maybe after all this time, I would check out my old stomping ground of CL> and responded to a guys ad...
"+++++ Sick of one sided conversations+++++++++++ - 32 (Waltham/Newton)
The topic says it all.. Sure I date but it always seems to be a one sided conversation. I am 32 single, handsome and looking for the right lady to engage in a REAL conversation and have a winning personality such as mine. IF you think you can fit is description send a pic to get mine and we will go from there."
We talked on email...him responding to my pic...and went on IM...which is faster then email.
7:40:04 PM Me: hi
7:40:15 PM Mr Bullz Eye: hey
7:40:23 PM Me: thought this might be easier
7:40:24 PM Me: ha
7:40:29 PM Mr Bullz Eye: lol
7:40:57 PM Me: so what do u do?
7:41:02 PM Mr Bullz Eye: finance
7:41:13 PM Mr Bullz Eye: you
7:41:19 PM Me: design
7:41:38 PM Mr Bullz Eye: < -- equity trader
7:41:46 PM Mr Bullz Eye: you have a degree
7:41:48 PM Mr Bullz Eye: ?
7:41:50 PM Me: two
7:41:51 PM Me: ha
7:41:55 PM Mr Bullz Eye: same 2
7:42:00 PM Mr Bullz Eye: where yo go
7:42:24 PM Me: school in albany ny and then grad in atlanta ga
7:42:43 PM Mr Bullz Eye: ya my sister goes to albany college of pharm
7:42:55 PM Me: oh yea that was close to where i went
7:42:55 PM Mr Bullz Eye: 4th year
7:43:03 PM Me: i went to the college of st rose
7:43:04 PM Mr Bullz Eye: i went to oswego
7:43:24 PM Mr Bullz Eye: st rose.. my 2 aunts got here master there in music they teach good school
7:43:34 PM Me: nice
7:43:38 PM Mr Bullz Eye: cool
7:43:40 PM Mr Bullz Eye: beans
7:43:41 PM Me: no one knows the school usually
7:43:42 PM Me: ha
7:43:54 PM Mr Bullz Eye: ya unless you know albany
7:44:00 PM Me: where did u grow up?
7:44:10 PM Mr Bullz Eye: 1 hour west of albany
7:44:15 PM Mr Bullz Eye: Gloversville
7:44:38 PM Mr Bullz Eye: then work and live in saratoga for 4 year
7:44:41 PM Mr Bullz Eye: (s)
7:44:44 PM Me: nice
7:44:50 PM Me: i like saratoga
7:44:55 PM Mr Bullz Eye: fun place
7:44:58 PM Me: i grew up in vermont
7:45:03 PM Mr Bullz Eye: i snow board
7:45:05 PM Mr Bullz Eye: killington
7:45:13 PM Me: i grew up near there
7:45:18 PM Mr Bullz Eye: cool
7:45:21 PM Me: near rutland
7:45:27 PM Mr Bullz Eye: cool
7:45:27 PM Me: closer to NY though
7:46:10 PM Me: so no parties tonight ...lol
7:46:17 PM Mr Bullz Eye: lol.. no you?
7:46:23 PM Mr Bullz Eye: how old are you?
7:46:27 PM Me: im off to the movies in a bit
7:46:29 PM Me: im 29
7:46:32 PM Mr Bullz Eye: k 31
7:46:40 PM Me: going to be 30 :( in a few weeks
7:46:42 PM Me: ha
7:46:48 PM Mr Bullz Eye: kool
7:46:50 PM Me: no offence to the 31 yr old
7:46:58 PM Mr Bullz Eye: easy killer
7:47:02 PM Me: haha
7:47:13 PM Me: i was just saying in response to my :(
7:47:22 PM Mr Bullz Eye: i know its all good
7:49:23 PM Me: u go out last night?
7:49:30 PM Mr Bullz Eye: i didnt
7:49:39 PM Mr Bullz Eye: but thursday i did
7:49:54 PM Mr Bullz Eye: hardcore :D
7:49:58 PM Me: lol
7:50:03 PM Me: still recovering?
7:50:13 PM Mr Bullz Eye: actually trying to-unrecover!
7:51:25 PM Mr Bullz Eye: ?
7:51:31 PM Me: ?
7:51:33 PM Me: lol
7:51:36 PM Mr Bullz Eye: lol
7:52:30 PM Me: so u live in waltham?
7:52:44 PM Mr Bullz Eye: yes
7:52:48 PM Mr Bullz Eye: you?
7:52:52 PM Me: newotn
7:52:55 PM Me: newton
7:53:01 PM Mr Bullz Eye: what ever they call hit
7:53:04 PM Mr Bullz Eye: lol
7:53:08 PM Me: :)
7:54:44 PM Me: so we should meet up sometime or something, i find meeting better then emailing and Iming
7:55:12 PM Mr Bullz Eye: what are you looking for
7:55:21 PM Me: i dont know
7:55:30 PM Me: no expectations
7:55:38 PM Me: what r u looking for?
7:55:48 PM Mr Bullz Eye: expectations
7:55:51 PM Mr Bullz Eye: lol
7:55:52 PM Mr Bullz Eye: no-expectations
7:56:02 PM Me: wait what
7:56:04 PM Me: lol
7:56:15 PM Mr Bullz Eye: im looking for whatever
7:56:18 PM Mr Bullz Eye: i guess
7:56:26 PM Me: at the moment i kind of want to have fun...sure I want to marriage and stuff...but you cant rush into it
7:56:40 PM Me: so i just want to have fun until its not anymore
7:56:58 PM Mr Bullz Eye: i love it
7:57:05 PM Me: if that makes sense
7:57:10 PM Mr Bullz Eye: it does
7:57:36 PM Mr Bullz Eye: are you just looking to "hook up"
7:57:42 PM Me: no
7:59:10 PM Mr Bullz Eye:well i am not looking for a one time deal i am looking for a several time deal
7:59:18 PM Me: me too!
7:59:20 PM Me: hah
7:59:34 PM Me: i dont know what i want
7:59:46 PM Me: i just want more then a FWB thing
7:59:57 PM Me: and more then a hookup
8:00:04 PM Mr Bullz Eye: sounds good
8:00:24 PM Me: have u met people online before?
8:00:27 PM Me: i used to
8:00:43 PM Mr Bullz Eye: your the 2nd
8:00:52 PM Me: havent in a while cause i got bored with it...but then i got bored and responded to ur ad
8:00:52 PM Me: ha
8:01:10 PM Mr Bullz Eye: cool-beans
8:01:23 PM Mr Bullz Eye: i dont know
8:01:35 PM Mr Bullz Eye: i am just bord here in waltham
8:01:43 PM Mr Bullz Eye: mass to be more narrow
8:02:07 PM Mr Bullz Eye: i have not met any people here and my sex life has been on ice.
8:02:19 PM Me: lol
8:02:20 PM Mr Bullz Eye: mass girls just bor me
8:02:31 PM Mr Bullz Eye: and i just dont "hook up to have sex
8:02:44 PM Me: thats a good thing
8:02:50 PM Me: not a bad thing
8:02:56 PM Mr Bullz Eye: well it is what it is
8:03:17 PM Me: ha...i hate hooking up to be honest...as for bored...i know the feeling
8:03:34 PM Me: i havent met anyone in a long time who is fun and can make me laugh
8:03:41 PM Mr Bullz Eye: but i dont want to jump into this huge relationship.. i dont mind having drinks or dinner but I just dont know what i am looking for.. what happens happens is good for me though
8:03:59 PM Me: i agree on the what happens happens
8:04:23 PM Me: thats why i like meeting quicker rather then emailing and iming
8:04:37 PM Me: cause u know after meeting if you want to hang out again or not
8:04:40 PM Mr Bullz Eye: totally.
8:05:10 PM Mr Bullz Eye: ya thats fine.
8:05:34 PM Me: lol
8:05:45 PM Mr Bullz Eye: how tall are you
8:06:00 PM Me: 5'3"
8:06:03 PM Me: u?
8:06:09 PM Mr Bullz Eye: 5/7
8:06:35 PM Mr Bullz Eye: weight?
8:07:00 PM Me: i dont know weight...i know clothes size, i dont go by weight, sorry
8:07:20 PM Mr Bullz Eye: lol, ok what size are you
8:07:37 PM Me: 14, I've been loosing weight so it varies
8:08:20 PM Mr Bullz Eye: cool
8:08:33 PM Mr Bullz Eye: thats a little to heavy for me
8:08:40 PM Me: ok
8:08:51 PM Mr Bullz Eye: im sorry but your cute though
Changed status to Offline (8:08:56 PM)
Ok...Soooo...me and my confidence get shit on...I am going to go to a movie and take a deep breath...and just think...F-him...but...
maybe he is right?
Or if he isnt who is?
4 comments:
I think some men are just shallow vessels. After asking your size and him responding that you are too "heavy" for him, he is off line within seconds. Not even a stitch of humanity left within his semen filled veins.... Not even the possibility of knowing the soul within the size 14. I'm not going to say "it's his loss" or some other cliche response to his superficial response. He is just simply an asshole.
It also doesn't make sense because he SAW your picture and still thought you were cute -- so why should the specific clothes size matter to him? The dude sounds like a moron.
SO I had sent an email later on that night...saying "Your Loss"
and got this back:
my loss...??? if you wanna hang and drink we can.. and have fun.
781-xxx-xxx
Such a toad..!!!
After spending a lot of time looking for the "one" and also learning from my friends fiascos..I say that "assholism" in embedded in their genes I think...but then, there are men who recognise that, and try to be a better person. The challenge is to find these rare species. And ofcourse, get them hooked.
I say, we remain the same. Positive and Happy.
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