Showing posts with label Mr Irish. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Mr Irish. Show all posts

Thursday, March 15, 2007

To believe or not to believe

7:38:22 PM ME: hi
7:38:34 PM Mr. Irish: hi
7:38:44 PM ME: what happened?
7:40:32 PM Mr. Irish: ok, so I was there and I went in at 5 past 8 or so and I didn't see anyone that looked anything like you, so I went out to my car and waited a few minutes and then called you, but apparently I'd put in the number wrong, so then I just waited and hoped you'd call and the rest is history
7:40:56 PM ME: that’s weird
7:40:59 PM ME: I was there, waiting outside, from 8-8:20
7:41:45 PM Mr. Irish: outside the front door?
7:41:52 PM ME: yea
7:42:06 PM Mr. Irish: I don't know how the hell I missed you
7:42:23 PM ME: I'm sorry I forgot your number
7:42:35 PM Mr. Irish: this was the john brewers on the Waltham Watertown line right
7:42:39 PM ME: yea yea
7:42:58 PM Mr. Irish: is there more than one door?
7:43:17 PM ME: I don’t think so
7:43:32 PM ME: u still want to meet?
7:44:07 PM Mr. Irish: sure, I feel bad about the mix up
7:47:18 PM ME: me too
7:47:28 PM ME: I thought u stood me up
7:49:03 PM Mr. Irish: yeah, I thought it might look like that, but I looked like an idiot the first time I walked in, looked around and left so I didn't wanna do that again
7:51:16 PM ME: I am sorry I forgot ur number
7:51:29 PM Mr. Irish: XXX-XXX-XXXX
7:52:45 PM ME: maybe we can meet another night
7:53:08 PM ME: u can call me sometime if u want to chat on the phone first
7:56:04 PM Mr. Irish: doesn't matter to me, I won't be able to do anything till Monday or Tuesday though
7:56:41 PM ME: ok
7:56:45 PM ME: maybe Monday
7:56:53 PM ME: what u up to this weekend? Anything fun
7:57:14 PM Mr. Irish: college basketball
8:06:08 PM ME: I can’t believe u showed up
8:06:45 PM Mr. Irish: why
8:08:19 PM ME: cause I thought u didn’t, that’s all
8:10:22 PM Mr. Irish: it was friggin crowded I thought
8:10:36 PM ME: yea it was
8:15:34 PM ME: so when was your last relationship?
8:16:12 PM Mr. Irish: over a year ago
8:20:03 PM ME: no questions for me?
8:20:34 PM Mr. Irish: not really
8:21:11 PM Mr. Irish: you're a girl, that's all I need to know
8:21:44 PM ME: lol ok

SO? I need help here...do I believe him? Is he even that interested? A part of me thinks to just give up and forget this one...it is way to much work...but maybe he will be better face to face? I dont know what to think of him...Give me some comments or email me and let me know...

Wednesday, March 14, 2007

Stood Up

I got stood up tonight…it was a whim meeting, which I wasn’t, all that excited about but thought it might be fun…hey something to do right?

I have not looked on CL in awhile…but have been doing Match here and there. I have talked to this one guy off and on the last few weeks or so. He isn’t much of a talker so I thought maybe talking face to face would be easier with him…sometimes it works that way. He has red hair and since we are so close to St Patty's Day, I will call him Mr. Irish.

His profile says:
I'm goofy, witty, and happy-go-lucky, I just like to laugh and have a good time and try and make other people laugh with me. I'm just looking for a girl who's fun to be around and doesn't mind if I'm going to be completely random and incoherent from time to time.

I do love to laugh so I winked at him…

We made plans today to meet at a local pub…I got there and looked around and sat outside until 20 minutes passed…

I honestly think its me telling other people that I got stood up that’s worse then the actual act. I mean I just wasn’t all into it tonight anyway…maybe we should talk on the phone first? I have no idea…but its more the process of walking into my apartment only 30 minutes later and having to tell my roommate why I am back so soon…and see the pity in her eyes. Or calling a friend who wanted to do something earlier that I told I had a date…and listen to him laugh at me. Or telling my best friend how I was stood up for the first time in my life and hear the worry in her voice…and he had my number too…he could have called.

I just checked my email actually and did get one from him. Saying:
I don't know if you showed or not, I tried to call, but I got a wrong number, xxx-xxx-xxxx is what I have in my phone” The number was a 3 not a 6…so he did have the wrong number. But he never said why he never showed…I don’t know what to do at this point in the game. I guess see what is real and what isn’t…if its meant to be that we meet I guess we will. My faiths in “boys” are over though…so I don’t believe anyone these days to begin with, so we shall see.